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Men, Why Are You Getting Rejected By Women?

Don’t be the reason she walks away. By: Jillian & Jan Yuhas A woman wants a man who is confident, caring, and respectful. Someone who takes the time to show her she is everything and knows what she...

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Learning to Trust Rejection

Embed from Getty Images — You should see the looks I get when I say this:  “I TRUST rejection”. They run the gamut from flabbergasted to skeptical to admiring to (dare I say it?) REJECTING. Most...

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How Men Can Approach the First Kiss After #Metoo

Embed from Getty Images — It was one of those parties where old friends see each other after years. In this case, it was my husband Philippe talking to an old friend of ours. He remembered a party...

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Why Do Men Hate Being Rejected so Much?

Embed from Getty Images — We are built to rule and when we finally offer our great bounty unto those chosen few, we expect gratitude. How many of us men have felt the pull, the dictate to put a woman...

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A Balm Against Rejection

— As a stand-up comedian, I’m away from home quite often. Occasionally, while sitting in my hotel room, I’ll write letters to my kiddos. The following is something I wrote to my son a little while...

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The Benefits of Rejection: How to Turn Pain Into a Positive

— There is nothing that feels good about being rejected. As a writer, I am subject to lots of rejection and criticism. I write what I may think is brilliant and submit it to editors who decide if it...

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3 Boxing Tricks that Bulletproof You from Rejection

Maybe that force has a name: fear, uncertainty, doubt… I’ve seen people with all the talent, beauty, and great personality traits in the world lose out on amazing people and opportunities because they...

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Minding The Birds: Why Men Appear Scary to Women

What would you do if a lion just walked into the room you’re in? You might freeze, knowing that there’s no escape. If you were in the wilderness, you would see all the other creatures flee immediately....

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What a Guy is Thinking When He Breaks Up with You Out of Nowhere

Sorry, ladies, we men aren’t good at this. We don’t exactly love conflict. (At least not the verbal kind–though we love battling for anything if it involves work or sports.) So we don’t always speak up...

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Apply ‘SW, SW, SW, Next’ When Dating

“Some will, some won’t, so what, next” is a popular phrase in sales which emphasizes the art of processing rejection and keeping things moving. This strategy also works in dating. Some Will:  Only a...

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Quit Being a ‘Nice Guy’?

— Hey Doc, Uhh long time reader first time asker etc, So I guess I’m a former Nice Guy. Read every nice guy article on the internet and 8 years later, I super feel no one has like an obligation to love...

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Why You Were Ghosted and What To Do

— Rejection and breakups are hard enough, but being ghosted can be traumatic. It can leave you with unanswered questions that make it hard to move on. Although ghosting also occurs in friendships, it’s...

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How to Get Over (Article) Rejection

We’ve all been there. That journal editor’s email appears in your inbox. Here’s one I received a few years ago: “I regret to inform you that our reviewers have now considered your paper, but...

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Are You Hiding in Your Writing?

People are going to judge you all the time no matter what you do. . . . Don’t worry about other people. Worry about you. — Jacqueline Woodson It’s deep. At a rough estimate, I’ve graded 8,000 college...

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Rejected

I got rejected by an online psychotherapist using LiveHealthOnline. Ouch. Slap in face. No doubt because of my bipolar diagnosis. I understand that online therapy is not always appropriate. The...

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Why I’m Not Mad at My Exes

I knew as soon as I got out of the shower what he was gonna say. He just couldn’t do it anymore. He didn’t really want to be in a relationship. He was too young. Then 2 months later he was with someone...

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When You Don’t Feel Good Enough for a Potential Partner

  Fresh off of a rejection two months ago, I’m no stranger to the pressure of pursuing somebody that I perceived to be better than me. She was wealthier, better looking, and more popular. This made me...

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Maybe Your Love Life Sucks Because You Don’t Know What Love Is

  There’s a guy. He’s having a really bad day because this girl he likes a lot decided to stop seeing him. She thought they were two people who enjoyed one another’s company. He thought they were madly...

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You Are Justified in Feeling Heartbroken

  At the end of January, I was feeling kinda heartbroken. For the previous six weeks, I had been chatting to someone on Tinder whom I was quite excited about. We had spoken most days, sharing intimate...

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What a Failed Setup Taught Me About Rejection

  A few months back a friend asked if he could set me up with someone, another friend of his. I’ll spare you the details of the terribly awkward interaction we had as he struggled to find the right way...

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